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AzianPride · 03-05-2025, 04:16 PM

?????

Mrtea · 03-06-2025, 09:19 AM

The fact that you have not posted anything respectful about what you’re possibly looking for out of a club or party like this shows me you may not be a good fit for places like this. I have been polyamorous many years now and go to these places with partners of mine. You usually need to apply for, be vetted or referred by someone to become a member or attend. You need to follow rules which are largely based on consent, and be respectful towards others if you want to engage in play. Just a heads up.

AzianPride · 03-06-2025, 01:05 PM

(03-06-2025, 09:19 AM)Mrtea Wrote: The fact that you have not posted anything respectful about what you’re possibly looking for out of a club or party like this shows me you may not be a good fit for places like this. I have been polyamorous many years now and go to these places with partners of mine. You usually need to apply for, be vetted or referred by someone to become a member or attend. You need to follow rules which are largely based on consent, and be respectful towards others if you want to engage in play. Just a heads up.

Have not posted anything respectful? I have been to sex party before . Im just looking for what else is out there.

multihandletroll · 03-06-2025, 04:27 PM

Trust me bro, you don't want to go to those...

Mrtea · 03-06-2025, 05:02 PM

(03-06-2025, 01:05 PM)AzianPride Wrote:
(03-06-2025, 09:19 AM)Mrtea Wrote: The fact that you have not posted anything respectful about what you’re possibly looking for out of a club or party like this shows me you may not be a good fit for places like this. I have been polyamorous many years now and go to these places with partners of mine. You usually need to apply for, be vetted or referred by someone to become a member or attend. You need to follow rules which are largely based on consent, and be respectful towards others if you want to engage in play. Just a heads up.

Have not posted anything respectful? I have been to sex party before . Im just looking for what else is out there.
Have not posted anything respectful? I have been to sex party before . Im just looking for what else is out there.

Posting a bunch of question marks is not respectful. If you have been to one’s in the part then you would have met people who you could connect with and find out about other events in the community or invited to private events. Try fetlife as I mentioned in another thread to connect with people and events if that is what you’re seeking.

AzianPride · (This post was last modified: 03-06-2025, 05:35 PM by AzianPride.)

(03-06-2025, 04:27 PM)multihandletroll Wrote: Trust me bro, you don't want to go to those...

why??

(03-06-2025, 05:02 PM)Mrtea Wrote:
(03-06-2025, 01:05 PM)AzianPride Wrote:
(03-06-2025, 09:19 AM)Mrtea Wrote: The fact that you have not posted anything respectful about what you’re possibly looking for out of a club or party like this shows me you may not be a good fit for places like this. I have been polyamorous many years now and go to these places with partners of mine. You usually need to apply for, be vetted or referred by someone to become a member or attend. You need to follow rules which are largely based on consent, and be respectful towards others if you want to engage in play. Just a heads up.

Have not posted anything respectful? I have been to sex party before . Im just looking for what else is out there.
Have not posted anything respectful? I have been to sex party before . Im just looking for what else is out there.

Posting a bunch of question marks is not respectful. If you have been to one’s in the part then you would have met people who you could connect with and find out about other events in the community or invited to private events. Try fetlife as I mentioned in another thread to connect with people and events if that is what you’re seeking.

Sorry, english is not my first language, I didnt mean to disrespectful.

ok, girl who I went to last one with found it upsetting and doesnt want to go to one again.

Is fetlife anonymous?

multihandletroll · (This post was last modified: 03-06-2025, 06:59 PM by multihandletroll.)

(03-06-2025, 05:33 PM)AzianPride Wrote:
(03-06-2025, 04:27 PM)multihandletroll Wrote: Trust me bro, you don't want to go to those...

why??

They are generally known for being filled with very unattractive people.

princeofpersia · 03-13-2025, 08:59 AM

make your own.
mansion and money and host your own, airbnb if needed

KimChiHoles · (This post was last modified: 03-17-2025, 09:09 PM by KimChiHoles.)

Fet life .
Or just google Vancouver swingers or Vancouver in the lifestyle . I think there’s actual a site called in the lifestyle ( which is the term used often )
Don’t dm me to ask questions , I was mildly curious once and simply used google . There is a thriving scene here if that’s what you’re looking for .

Mrtea · 03-19-2025, 05:25 PM

(03-06-2025, 06:58 PM)multihandletroll Wrote:
(03-06-2025, 05:33 PM)AzianPride Wrote:
(03-06-2025, 04:27 PM)multihandletroll Wrote: Trust me bro, you don't want to go to those...

why??

They are generally known for being filled with very unattractive people.

They are full of all kinds of people. There are a couple of clubs I know of who have been criticized in the swinger community actually because they only allow members and guests to their parties who are attractive. One of the most popular clubs in the lower mainland only has good looking people so if this is your take you have not been to many. I have been going 20+ years now to these clubs and parties.

But don’t think they are full of people DTF. I will note on the “very unattractive people” comment above most who are DTF are the women I would deem to be less attractive or unattractive though. So if you just want to get laid don’t be picky.