Would you ever date a current or former escort?

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But the thing about this not matching your values is it goes both ways - if you date a women and she finds out you are seeing escorts - or finds out that you've seen them in the past - she will not want to date you anymore. Don't you agree? I don't think there is any women who would be cool with you seeing escorts, unless she herself is an ex-escort.

While I agree that many women might be uncomfortable dating a man who has seen escorts, I believe it's a different matter entirely from a man choosing not to date someone who is or was an escort.

Based on what I've seen, women generally seem much more forgiving of a man's past than men are of a woman's. Moreover, I believe that if a man meets all of her key criteria, checked all her other boxes and seems like a strong long-term partner, most women would likely overlook the fact that he had seen escorts in the past. 

This is purely anecdotal, but I know men who are in long-term relationships with high-quality women, and despite having seen escorts in the past, and their partners being aware of it, it hasn't caused any issues.

I also think the frequency makes a big difference, there's a significant distinction between a guys who’s seen an escort once or twice in his life, and someone who does so on a regular, weekly basis. But then theres also the question of if the woman would ever find out, and how she would find out, I think most woman wouldn't even ask. Whereas if a woman was an escort in the past the guy would almost certainly find out, and would likely find out quickly before he got in too deep.

I also think a key factor in how a woman judges a man for having seen escorts is why he did it, and whether it was out of necessity. If a man is generally attractive to women, not just physically, but as the full package, and occasionally saw escorts due to being busy or convenience, while still being capable of dating, having sex and forming relationships without paying, I think many women would be willing to overlook that part of his past. On the other hand, if a man is seen as unattractive and relied on escorts because it was the only way he could be with women or get laid, then I think most women would find that off putting and a dealbreaker.

Now, if a man saw escorts while he was in a relationship, that’s a completely different matter. I think most women would see that as a major red flag and a dealbreaker. Personally, I would never see escorts while in a relationship

Chad can fuck escorts and woman will still date him

[MissHunter]

This is always an interesting question in forums like these. Would you ever consider being in a relationship with someone who is or has ever been an escort?

This is much Much easier to answer when your thinking logically and haven’t gotten close to one or gotten feels

Agreed

[Tyrone]

This is always an interesting question in forums like these. Would you ever consider being in a relationship with someone who is or has ever been an escort?

This is much Much easier to answer when your thinking logically and haven’t gotten close to one or gotten feels

Imma be real, I dont even know how you would get yourself in a position where you catch the feels for an escort

[OF_Manager]

You think rock stars, Politicians, movie celebrities who occasional see escorts are low lifers lol? Hardly!!

Exactly. No girls gonna turn down dating Drake because he has paid for sex before

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But the thing about this not matching your values is it goes both ways 

This.  Those of us who see escorts are not entitiled to any sort of moral/social high ground or value than the escorts themselves.   We are no less damaged, deluded or tainted by this industry by our participation in it.  If you're someone who sees escorts and then looks down on them as though they're intrinsically lesser or lower value than you then you need to grow the fuck up and look in a mirror. 

To answer the original question I would never date an escort who was actively working but if the right girl, situation, connection came along I'd consider settling down at some point with someone who had been an escort.  If nothing else it would be a situation where we could both be open and transparent about our respective pasts-- something that would be very hard in a relationship with someone who hadn't been an escort.

So men who have seen escorts aren't allowed to not want to date an escort? 

This comes across as projection from someone who's way too immersed in the world of seeing escorts.

And thats coming from a guy who makes OF content