Would you ever date a current or former escort?

[yaletownfuckboi]

There are two kinds of SP’s: the ones who only know and only will know SW and the ones who use it to get higher goals in life. I would only date the latter, and a woman who didn’t do drugs, had a good head on her shoulders, intelligent and who is business savvy. If she has university education or is doing SW to get higher education, and has goals in her life outside of SW then she’s smart to use it to her advantage and to move forward.
Unfortunately many SP’s will get into this work and stay in it, and not do much with their life, and remain a lifelong whore, and no real man wants that. These two kinds of SP’s have a very different mindset, and I’m shocked other members here don’t see this. I personally only see SP’s that I know have big goals, invest their money, and use SW as a stepping stone to something bigger and their mindset is more like mine too.
Plus when you’re university educated, with a 6 figure salary you don’t want to talk to dummies or surround yourself with losers. You are the company you keep, and that goes for SP’s too.

Literally no one is claiming that there aren’t various types of escorts with different motivations and goals.

I wouldn’t date or have a relationship with an escort, whether current or past, because of the disgust factor, and our morals and values don’t align.

I don’t care about her motivations, goals, mindset, why she’s doing it, or whether she’s smart or investing her money, it's a turn-off and a dealbreaker for me. I know many guys feel the same.

I agree that you are the company you keep. However, I don’t spend much time with escorts. If I were to make a list of the people I spend the most time with, no escort would even come close to making the top 50. When I do spend time with an escort, it’s usually just 30 to 90 minutes, and for me, it’s more about their appearance, service, and attitude than anything else.

Just because you live a more isolated life, with a smaller social circle, and have fewer options when it comes to dating or long-term relationships doesn’t mean everyone else is in the same position. I have plenty of options, and fortunately, most of the women I know and meet would never consider being an escort. I’m in a position to set standards and preferences, and I choose not to date someone who’s currently an escort or has been one in the past. I’ll stick to those preferences.

That doesn’t mean there aren’t some great escorts who are smart and well grounded. I’ve met plenty. But I’d never date or have a serious relationship with someone who’s been an escort, past or present. It’s just not something I’d consider, period.