Rizzgod's Guide to Sugar Dating

[Rizzgod]

I would appreciate it if someone could provide a deeper exploration of how social media apps, such as Instagram, can be utilized for sugar dating and what that entails.
Also is Snapchat still a thing? and if so how do you find profiles on it?

For using Instagram, you have two options:

You can utilize your existing personal Instagram account to reach out to girls and inquire if they’re interested in a sugar arrangement. Depending on your level of privacy, you might want to choose your words carefully and be less direct, but ultimately, it’s your choice. One benefit of using your personal IG is that it provides social proof, also allowing them to see what you look like, and your lifestyle etc. If you go this route id suggest trying to move the conversation to an alternative medium as quickly as possible, such as text or snapchat.

Alternatively, you could create a "burner" Instagram account or one dedicated specifically to sugar dating. You can either set one up from scratch or buy an existing account online. While this method offers more discretion, if the account is too obviously a burner, many girls might find it suspicious or think you’re a scammer.

As long as you're not reaching out to girls with tens of thousands of followers, she will probably see your message eventually. If it ends up in her requests inbox, it might take her a bit longer to notice it. However, from my experience chatting with girls, most girls tend to read every Instagram message they receive.

Thanks for the detailed response.

Any advice for making my instagram more appealing to woman who are interested in sugar dating? Types of pics etc?

I dunno, play to your strengths.
Plenty of youtube videos etc out there on that topic.

[quarterback]

I would appreciate it if someone could provide a deeper exploration of how social media apps, such as Instagram, can be utilized for sugar dating and what that entails.
Also is Snapchat still a thing? and if so how do you find profiles on it?

For using Instagram, you have two options:
You can utilize your existing personal Instagram account to reach out to girls and inquire if they’re interested in a sugar arrangement. Depending on your level of privacy, you might want to choose your words carefully and be less direct, but ultimately, it’s your choice. One benefit of using your personal IG is that it provides social proof, also allowing them to see what you look like, and your lifestyle etc. If you go this route id suggest trying to move the conversation to an alternative medium as quickly as possible, such as text or snapchat.
Alternatively, you could create a "burner" Instagram account or one dedicated specifically to sugar dating. You can either set one up from scratch or buy an existing account online. While this method offers more discretion, if the account is too obviously a burner, many girls might find it suspicious or think you’re a scammer.
As long as you're not reaching out to girls with tens of thousands of followers, she will probably see your message eventually. If it ends up in her requests inbox, it might take her a bit longer to notice it. However, from my experience chatting with girls, most girls tend to read every Instagram message they receive.

Thanks for the detailed response.
Any advice for making my instagram more appealing to woman who are interested in sugar dating? Types of pics etc?

I only briefly skimmed this video, but it seems to align with what you’re looking for.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_VJaIviXAs&t=411s

[FinanceBro]

I would appreciate it if someone could provide a deeper exploration of how social media apps, such as Instagram, can be utilized for sugar dating and what that entails.
Also is Snapchat still a thing? and if so how do you find profiles on it?

For using Instagram, you have two options:
You can utilize your existing personal Instagram account to reach out to girls and inquire if they’re interested in a sugar arrangement. Depending on your level of privacy, you might want to choose your words carefully and be less direct, but ultimately, it’s your choice. One benefit of using your personal IG is that it provides social proof, also allowing them to see what you look like, and your lifestyle etc. If you go this route id suggest trying to move the conversation to an alternative medium as quickly as possible, such as text or snapchat.
Alternatively, you could create a "burner" Instagram account or one dedicated specifically to sugar dating. You can either set one up from scratch or buy an existing account online. While this method offers more discretion, if the account is too obviously a burner, many girls might find it suspicious or think you’re a scammer.
As long as you're not reaching out to girls with tens of thousands of followers, she will probably see your message eventually. If it ends up in her requests inbox, it might take her a bit longer to notice it. However, from my experience chatting with girls, most girls tend to read every Instagram message they receive.

Thanks for the detailed response.
Any advice for making my instagram more appealing to woman who are interested in sugar dating? Types of pics etc?

I only briefly skimmed this video, but it seems to align with what you’re looking for.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_VJaIviXAs&t=411s

This is actually a pretty good video.
Usually, videos like this tend to be cringe and filled with common sense that doesn't really need to be turned into a video. However, this one actually delivers a lot of value and offers solid advice, not just for sugar dating but for dating as a whole.

[AzianPride]

how to get response from white girls? be white only way?

[bigusdikus]

tequila and cocaine helps a lot

[TB12]

I would appreciate it if someone could provide a deeper exploration of how social media apps, such as Instagram, can be utilized for sugar dating and what that entails.
Also is Snapchat still a thing? and if so how do you find profiles on it?

For using Instagram, you have two options:
You can utilize your existing personal Instagram account to reach out to girls and inquire if they’re interested in a sugar arrangement. Depending on your level of privacy, you might want to choose your words carefully and be less direct, but ultimately, it’s your choice. One benefit of using your personal IG is that it provides social proof, also allowing them to see what you look like, and your lifestyle etc. If you go this route id suggest trying to move the conversation to an alternative medium as quickly as possible, such as text or snapchat.
Alternatively, you could create a "burner" Instagram account or one dedicated specifically to sugar dating. You can either set one up from scratch or buy an existing account online. While this method offers more discretion, if the account is too obviously a burner, many girls might find it suspicious or think you’re a scammer.
As long as you're not reaching out to girls with tens of thousands of followers, she will probably see your message eventually. If it ends up in her requests inbox, it might take her a bit longer to notice it. However, from my experience chatting with girls, most girls tend to read every Instagram message they receive.

Thanks for the detailed response.
Any advice for making my instagram more appealing to woman who are interested in sugar dating? Types of pics etc?

I only briefly skimmed this video, but it seems to align with what you’re looking for.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_VJaIviXAs&t=411s

I have never even thought about this or thought about approaching woman on insta gram. people do this? is it common?
mine needs a lot of work, problem is I dont do much interesting to take pictures of

[FinanceBro]

how to get response from white girls? be white only way?

https://www.yahoo.com/news/short-kings-r...08780.html

According to this study you gotta make $317,000 USD more than whatever white guys are your competition.

[mrwolf]

I have pretty good success just copy and pasting the same message , I often take one or two things from the girls profile first to make it seem less copy paste and usually get a good reply ratio,

I tend to wait to meet closer to rent time and find that woman are more inclined to meet for the allowance I offer.

Once I meet them and have some fun I always repeat and if we don’t continue most of these women became my friends.

Often I just get bored of them or they want to date so I move on.

I travel frequently for work so never in the same city too long

[quarterback]

I have pretty good success just copy and pasting the same message , I often take one or two things from the girls profile first to make it seem less copy paste and usually get a good reply ratio,

I tend to wait to meet closer to rent time and find that woman are more inclined to meet for the allowance I offer.

Once I meet them and have some fun I always repeat and if we don’t continue most of these women became my friends.

Often I just get bored of them or they want to date so I move on.

I travel frequently for work so never in the same city too long

Yep, same here. Usually, when an arrangement ends, it's because I'm bored, or they catch feelings and I have to let them go, or they start dating someone else.
Boredoms the number one reason.
I'd say that 80% of the time, I'm the one who ends it, but when the girl ends it, she tends to have a boyfriend within a week or two haha.

[bigusdikus]

Can we gave a direct comment regarding pricing please? How much do these girls want? Thank you!

[mrwolf]

Can we gave a direct comment regarding pricing please? How much do these girls want? Thank you!

Each girl is different but can be 200 up to 1000

[TB12]

Update:
I payed for the diamond membership and I started lying about my annual income (I doubled it), and I have had more success.
I had 5 meet and greets, two turning into arrangements. One arrangement fizzled out, but the other ones going strong.
I also have an additional meet and greet next week!
The ladies I have met are stunning, I can see why so many men prefer this over escorts, I haven't even looked at leolist or tryst in a month!
Although im looking to see an escort this weekend haha

[Drbootycall]

It seems that the quality of Seeking has significantly declined. The selection of women has deteriorated noticeably. Prior to 2023 and the platform’s new direction, Seeking was filled with attractive and engaging individuals. I’m curious if anyone is aware of a newer, more reliable alternative. I’ve already tried Secret Benefits (which turned out to be a scam), SugarDaddyMeet, and What’s Your Price — unfortunately, all of these seem subpar nowadays. Any recommendations would be appreciated.

I describe Secret Benefits as a scam based on a personal experience. I created a fake profile posing as a woman, and then promptly deleted it. However, a few days later, while browsing the platform from the men’s side, I noticed that the same profile I had created and deleted was still active and visible. This raised serious concerns about the platform’s integrity.

[yaletownfuckboi]

I have been told by a few girls that say "there aren't enough rich guys in Vancouver"

This is clearly a ridiculous statement in many ways, but it does hold some truth when you compare us to the US.

It makes me think that many girls might be going to the US to look for sugar daddies. I know quite a few young, attractive girls in Vancouver who likely have sugar daddies, as their extravagant lifestyles don't seem to match their low-paying or nonexistent jobs, and they frequently travel to places like LA, Miami, New York and other cities.

[Rizzgod]

I have been told by a few girls that say "there aren't enough rich guys in Vancouver"
This is clearly a ridiculous statement in many ways, but it does hold some truth when you compare us to the US.
It makes me think that many girls might be going to the US to look for sugar daddies. I know quite a few young, attractive girls in Vancouver who likely have sugar daddies, as their extravagant lifestyles don't seem to match their low-paying or nonexistent jobs, and they frequently travel to places like LA, Miami, New York and other cities.

I wouldn't be surprised if this is the case. When I visit the U.S., particularly in major cities, there are so many attractive sugar babies on Seeking that it's oversaturated. Many of them mention having difficulty finding sugar daddies due to the overwhelming competition.  It's certainly slowed down a bit in the U.S. also, but it still feels a lot like how Seeking was in Vancouver back in 2019.

For the most part, wealthy Canadian men simply don't have the same purchasing power.

[Americanboy]

I have been told by a few girls that say "there aren't enough rich guys in Vancouver"
This is clearly a ridiculous statement in many ways, but it does hold some truth when you compare us to the US.
It makes me think that many girls might be going to the US to look for sugar daddies. I know quite a few young, attractive girls in Vancouver who likely have sugar daddies, as their extravagant lifestyles don't seem to match their low-paying or nonexistent jobs, and they frequently travel to places like LA, Miami, New York and other cities.

I wouldn't be surprised if this is the case. When I visit the U.S., particularly in major cities, there are so many attractive sugar babies on Seeking that it's oversaturated. Many of them mention having difficulty finding sugar daddies due to the overwhelming competition.  It's certainly slowed down a bit in the U.S. also, but it still feels a lot like how Seeking was in Vancouver back in 2019.

For the most part, wealthy Canadian men simply don't have the same purchasing power.

It’s an entirely different game in cities like LA and New York. Men have all the advantage since there’s practically an endless supply of hot young sugar babies.

[Zegna99Victor1981]

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Imho, tinder, hinge, bumble and similar platforms is a waste of time. At least I was never successful and straight to the point with these.

Re websites:
Seeking is the best bang for a buck
Whatsyourprice is the most ridiculous platform and idea I have ever seen
Sugardaddymeet is ok, but it doesn't allow to narrow a search diameter to less than 80km
Secret benefits is the cheapest option, for what you can do for free, but the database of the girls around you may be quite small

Re sugadadding... I think if the financial difference is 10x and age difference is more than 15 years... you kinda fall into the category.

of coz, u may be very fit, very healthy and still looking young... but the age gap and generation difference, plus income difference is so detrimental... that it is quite impossible to overpass...

If you share your sugar baby with other guys, that's, basically, escorting. If you share her with more than just her BF, if there is one or you cannot prove the number of studs per given period of time in her vagina... then you will suffer, unless this is what you are ok with.

But yes, if u have found an exclusive one or as close to exclusivity as you can get, u r the lucky one.

Miracles happen, but clearly understand that it is sex and nothing more... or at least, get this: a chance for something more is very slim and less than a stat error.... besides, when a woman starts escorting or sugar babying...something fundamental is broken/missing or was never there to begin with and the idea that this girl is a whore will always bother you in the back of your mind...
So control your emotions. This refers to me too. Sometimes it is hard to do.

what can you do for free on secret benefits

[Boomba]

I saw that Seeking added a weight filter. How do you guys feel about this?

Personally, i'm fit and have muscle, but I can also be a chunky monkey at times.
I wonder if my weight will have a negative impact?

[Tyrone]

I saw that Seeking added a weight filter. How do you guys feel about this?

Personally, i'm fit and have muscle, but I can also be a chunky monkey at times.
I wonder if my weight will have a negative impact?

As a hard body, muscular dude, I was worried about this too, my dog. I got some weight on me, but I got abs. Ain't been no problem so far, as far as I can tell.

But once these ladies see my pics, and they see they could grade cheese off these abs