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Rizzgod's Guide to Sugar Dating
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I've had a lot of people on other sites asking me for advice on sugar dating and how to navigate it. I figured I'd write up a bit of a guide. I've wanted to do one of these for a while, and now that I'm on a plane with some free time, I can finally get to it. I thought this could also be a great discussion thread, so feel free to add your thoughts and share your experiences.

What is Sugar Dating:
Sugar dating differs for everyone and encompasses a wide variety of arrangements, varying significantly under its broad umbrella. It typically involves an older, financially successful man spending time with a younger, often attractive woman. Often, it resembles escorting, where the man directly pays the woman an allowance for their time together. However, it can also be simply a case of a woman dating a wealthy man who spoils her with nice dinners, experiences, gifts, and more. And alot of times its something in between.

Advantages of Sugar Dating over escorts:
-There is a significantly larger pool of women interested in sugar dating who have no desire to engage in escorting. As a result, there are many more "sugar babies" than escorts.
-Because there are more sugar babies, along with greater discretion, reduced stigma, and fewer expectations, sugar dating often draws more attractive, mentally stable, and younger women compared to escorting.
-Most women who are sugar babies operate at a significantly lower volume than escorts.
-Can provide a much deeper sense of emotional connection and fulfillment, among other things.
-Arrangements are more customized to meet the needs of both individuals and tend to be less time-restrained and less transactional.
-Significantly less prone to being catfished or misled about a woman's age or looks

Advantages of Escorts over Sugar Dating:
-The transaction is more clear and transparent, you clearly understand what you're getting for the price you pay and the time you invest.
-Less paper trail and communication
-Typically more discrete
-Escorts are (almost) always able to host and have an incall
-Usually available on the same day, can accommodate last-minute requests, or can be pre-booked well in advance, making it much less flaky and more business like
-Services are typically listed and advertised clearly.
-More specialized services (example: massage)
-Greater recourse is available if you are misled by promised services, or false claims about age and appearance, due to review boards and similar mechanisms.
-Generally, they will accommodate anyone who passes their initial light screening and pays the required rate, with minimal to no discrimination or refusal of services based on appearance, age, or similar factors. (advantage for the ugly guys)

Where to source sugar babies:
-Sugar Sites: while they seemed more popular and had more members five years ago, still serve as valuable resources for finding sugar babies, especially since the intentions of both parties are usually clear. I've noticed that many girls create an account, connect with one or a few guys, then temporarily delete their accounts before repeating the process, so staying active and checking frequently is important. I've only used Seeking, but there are other platforms and apps as well, perhaps someone else can provide more detail on those. In my experience, having a premium account on Seeking is essential for success, as it shows you are serious, aren't completely broke, also allows you to share private photos.

-Dating Apps are, in my opinion, one of the best ways to find sugar babies nowadays. For starters, you know that the people you’re engaging with are single. If you want to avoid getting a "sugar daddy" reputation, it's important to be subtle. You'll likely come across some girls who aren’t interested, but you'll be surprised at how many are, especially if you’re decent-looking and younger. I've used Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge for this purpose, and I find Hinge to be the most effective because you can message someone without needing to match first, although all of them have their merits. Raya is also great especially when travelling, but its tough to get on there for most guys.

-Social Media is an excellent tool for finding sugar babies, particularly Instagram, but platforms like TikTok and Snapchat can also be effective. Similar to dating apps, you'll want to be subtle in your messages, especially if you're using your personal account. Creating a burner account that appears real can work, but you’ll likely have better success with an authentic-looking profile, especially if you're attractive or showcase a luxurious lifestyle. I have a second burner Instagram that doesn’t reveal my face and looks legitimate, which I use occasionally, but my personal account has yielded the best results. I usually keep my language vague enough to maintain plausible deniability, and then introduce the sugar daddy concept once the conversation moves to more private channels like text or Snapchat. 

-Onlyfans: Not just OnlyFans, but also Fansly and other similar sites. I've had success finding local OnlyFans girls and offering to be their sugar daddy. You just need to be careful with your language because platforms like OnlyFans don’t want you using terms that imply meeting in real life. However, most OnlyFans girls do have sex for money.

How to be succesful at sugar dating:
The most successful individuals in the realm of sugar dating tend to be those who are reasonably attractive, maintain good physical fitness, possess charisma and conversational skills with women, be relatively young, and have at least above-average financial success. Do you need all of those qualities to succeed in sugar dating? Not necessarily. However, if you aim to attract the most desirable and in-demand women, having most or all of those traits will be important.
If you're extremely wealthy, think $50 to $100 million plus or more, you'll find success relying solely on your money, without needing the other traits. However, if your net worth is between $1 million and $10 million, it's beneficial to possess some additional qualities. For those earning low to mid-six figures or less, you may achieve some level of success, but you'll likely need to target more attainable women unless you have a well-rounded appeal beyond just your finances.
But to be honest, if you’re a good-looking guy who isn’t too old, is fit, and has a bit of charm, you can definitely still succeed. You’ll just need to manage your finances wisely and be shrewd in your negotiations.
Regardless of where you stand, it's important to remember that you're competing with other men, so you should stay sharp and be aware of your strengths. This isn't like hiring escorts, where a provider will see any man who passes their screening, shows up at their door and pays their rate. In sugar dating, the most attractive women can afford to be selective, they can assess and vet potential partners and have plenty of options.

That said, it’s important to recognize your leverage. There are many more sugar babies than there are men who can and want to be sugar daddies. So, if you can afford to be one and possess attractive qualities, you hold more leverage in this dynamic compared to most sugar babies. It’s a straightforward case of supply and demand: sugar daddies are in limited supply and are highly sought after.

Don’t allow women to manipulate you. There are many who may try to take advantage of you, so it’s important to stand your ground. Be ready to walk away or negotiate if someone is asking for too much. If a woman isn’t delivering on her promises or if the arrangement isn’t mutually beneficial, don’t hesitate to step back. Likewise, if she is being rude or disrespectful, it’s best to cease communication. While this may seem like common sense, I thought it was worth mentioning. If you’re a particularly passive or desperate man, you might want to reconsider engaging in sugar dating, as you could end up being exploited.

Do not make an escort your sugar baby. Don’t let escorts shame you for choosing or preferring sugar dating. If you come across an escort on Seeking or if a woman you meet is behaving too much like an escort, walk away. Never turn an escort into a sugar baby. Also, be aware that you might see escorts online using gaslighting and shaming language towards sugar daddies and those who prefer sugar dating; just ignore it. Escorts often see sugar babies as a threat to their business. Many escorts may not be attractive enough to succeed in sugar dating, and if they were, they likely wouldn’t be escorting. Having encountered many escorts in Vancouver and across North America, I've found that the average escort is about a 5 or 6 out of 10 in looks, often even lower. They can’t compete with the 8s and 9s in the sugar baby world, which leads to jealousy and attempts to shame men for pursuing sugar babies. (If you're an escort reading this, I apologize in advance, this message is intended for a male audience. I've encountered many wonderful escorts, Im just being honest, as harsh at it is)

This should be common knowledge, but I'll mention it briefly: Avoid being creepy, disrespectful, or rude, and always practice good hygiene. It really should go without saying.

How to set up an arrangement:
Once you've made contact, share with the potential sugar baby what you're looking for and your terms, and take the time to listen to their perspective as well.
Once you’re aligned, many guys opt to arrange an unpaid "meet and greet," like a quick coffee or drink, to see if there’s a good connection. It’s also an excellent way to verify that the woman resembles her pictures. While some guys may bypass this step or offer a small amount of cash for it, it's generally a common practice in the sugar dating scene. If she’s not receptive to this idea, it may indicate that she has something to hide.

In terms of arrangement types, there’s usually the "standard arrangement," where the guy pays a woman a set monthly amount, and then there's PPM (pay per meet). My experience has been exclusively with PPM, and I’ve had some fairly long-term arrangements. From what I've seen, most women also prefer PPM, as it allows for more flexibility and reduces expectations. Even if you're ultimately interested in a "standard arrangement," I recommend beginning with PPM and transitioning to it once trust has been established.

When it comes to how much you should be paying or the PPM amounts, it can vary significantly based on several factors, such as the duration of each meet and the activities you engage in. It might be wise to establish different PPM rates depending on what you do together and how much time you spend with each other. I believe the amount can vary significantly depending on how much she likes you or how attractive you are. I've had several arrangements where a woman receives a lower PPM amount from me while getting significantly more PPM from another sugar daddy. However, she’s willing to accept less from me because she finds me more appealing than him.

Regarding average PPM amounts, my perspective is based solely on my own experiences. I would estimate that it can range from $0 to $1000 per PPM, with $500 likely being the average amount most girls request. While some may ask for more, being firm about the number you're comfortable with typically results in them agreeing to a lower amount. There are also plenty of women who simply want to date a rich guy and don't expect an allowance. They are interested in experiencing the lifestyle that comes with spending time and doing things with a wealthy man. However, don’t make this assumption if this is what she wants, she will communicate it to you. 

While this all seems potentially less costly than hiring escorts, and it can be, and a lot of times is, it really depends on the arrangement, the woman, and the activities you engage in together. Sometimes, when you include expenses like dinners, drinks, hotel rooms, and travel, it can end up being just as expensive, if not more so, than seeing escorts. So, be wise with your finances and avoid spending beyond your means.
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That’s a bold move writing and dropping this gem on a flight, hope nobody was caught peeping.

No jokes, for real, this write-up is on point, my G. Mad respect for this! I can’t think of much to add.
For real, no jokes, this write-up is onFor real, no jokes, this write-up is on point, my dude. Mad respect for this! I can’t think of much to add.
point, my dude. Mad respect for this! I can’t think of much to add.
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(12-18-2024, 06:38 PM)Tyrone Wrote: That’s a bold move writing and dropping this gem on a flight, hope nobody was caught peeping.

No jokes, for real, this write-up is on point, my G. Mad respect for this! I can’t think of much to add.
For real, no jokes, this write-up is onFor real, no jokes, this write-up is on point, my dude. Mad respect for this! I can’t think of much to add.
point, my dude. Mad respect for this! I can’t think of much to add.

I fly private Wink

Thanks bro!
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#4
VEry well written text!
Appreciated
I will PUNISH!
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#5
Big Grin 
As noted, excellent post Rizzgod.

Around 2 years ago, I tried some sugar daddy websites. One I tried was SugarDaddyMeet.com. I think I paid $90 US for 3 months, something like that. The site itself is well-designed and secure, with no fakes, etc. However, I found that the userbase was low in my area, and I found most girls on the site to be very subpar and unattractive—about a 5/10 in terms of looks. In the event that I did find a cute girl, she would be nowhere near my area. After 3 months, I didn't renew my membership, and I wouldn't repeat the experience. Also, I'm a bit of a privacy freak, so I'm very uneasy about having my picture online. I did give it a try, but I won't repeat online. In person, I might pitch the idea to a young woman - if under the right circumstances.

In contrast, all the escorts I've seen this year have exceeded my expectations in terms of looks. They are all very beautiful—most have been really hot, sexy, fit, and smart, etc. Check out my reviews; I'm truly amazed by it. I'm intrigued by what motivates these women to enter this business—almost more than the sex itself. Just kidding; I’m definitely there for the sex. However, these women are beautiful and could have rich sugar daddies, yet they choose to escort. Why is that? Is it purely for the money? One escort confessed to me this year that she makes $20,000 per month, which amounts to a quarter of a million per year. How many sugar daddies can match that?

Rizzgod, you said, "Do not make an escort your sugar baby," but you never explained why. Some escorts already do the sugar daddy thing, retire, and then go exclusive with one or two clients. Personally, I try to stay open to all possibilities. A meaningful connection can happen anywhere, and I'm often surprised by how much I misjudge people throughout my life. That said, the problem I see is whether we can really trust an escort? I'd have to say no. I love these ladies—some are so sweet—but I wouldn't trust them in a million years. Or at the very least, it would take a couple of years to build that trust.

OnlyFans seems to me like a gateway to escorting. We already see these girls posting on Leolist. It starts off as "only online," but over time, the lines blur, and before you know it, she's escorting. Just as Altay once said, every woman has a price, and that's simply the truth of it. But men have a price too—aside from monks or ascetics, of course. You said, "Don’t allow women to manipulate you." Haha, ah yes, that's definitely been the age-old goal of all men.
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(12-21-2024, 06:46 PM)adastra Wrote: As noted, excellent post Rizzgod.
Around 2 years ago, I tried some sugar daddy websites. One I tried was SugarDaddyMeet.com. I think I paid $90 US for 3 months, something like that. The site itself is well-designed and secure, with no fakes, etc. However, I found that the userbase was low in my area, and I found most girls on the site to be very subpar and unattractive—about a 5/10 in terms of looks. In the event that I did find a cute girl, she would be nowhere near my area. After 3 months, I didn't renew my membership, and I wouldn't repeat the experience. Also, I'm a bit of a privacy freak, so I'm very uneasy about having my picture online. I did give it a try, but I won't repeat online. In person, I might pitch the idea to a young woman - if under the right circumstances.
In contrast, all the escorts I've seen this year have exceeded my expectations in terms of looks. They are all very beautiful—most have been really hot, sexy, fit, and smart, etc. Check out my reviews; I'm truly amazed by it. I'm intrigued by what motivates these women to enter this business—almost more than the sex itself. Just kidding; I’m definitely there for the sex. However, these women are beautiful and could have rich sugar daddies, yet they choose to escort. Why is that? Is it purely for the money? One escort confessed to me this year that she makes $20,000 per month, which amounts to a quarter of a million per year. How many sugar daddies can match that?
Rizzgod, you said, "Do not make an escort your sugar baby," but you never explained why. Some escorts already do the sugar daddy thing, retire, and then go exclusive with one or two clients. Personally, I try to stay open to all possibilities. A meaningful connection can happen anywhere, and I'm often surprised by how much I misjudge people throughout my life. That said, the problem I see is whether we can really trust an escort? I'd have to say no. I love these ladies—some are so sweet—but I wouldn't trust them in a million years. Or at the very least, it would take a couple of years to build that trust.
OnlyFans seems to me like a gateway to escorting. We already see these girls posting on Leolist. It starts off as "only online," but over time, the lines blur, and before you know it, she's escorting. Just as Altay once said, every woman has a price, and that's simply the truth of it. But men have a price too—aside from monks or ascetics, of course. You said, "Don’t allow women to manipulate you." Haha, ah yes, that's definitely been the age-old goal of all men.
Thanks for sharing your experience and perspective.

That's interesting. I've never tried SugarDaddyMeet.com, but I've seen ads for it, from my cursory research it seems to have a small user-base compared to the others. I know Seeking is the most popular, and I've heard SecretBenefits is popular too. There's also an app called WhatYourPrice thats apparently popular, but I've only ever used Seeking. The city you're in really matters. Smaller cities don't have as much going on, so many girls from those areas will change their location to bigger cities to try to visit or get flown out, or to travel, I see this a lot with girls from Victoria looking for sugar daddies in Vancouver for example. Seeking seems to be more popular stateside as well, it used to be more popular in Canada but seems to have died down a bit as opposed to pre covid times.I understand what you're saying about privacy. On Seeking, you can have private photos that you only share with the girls you allow. I would usually use two photos: one from the back and one from the front with a hat pulled down so you can mostly just see the bottom of my face. That gives me some plausible deniability, but I would still be hesitant to share them.If you ever think about getting back into it, you should definitely try Seeking. The premium membership is a bit expensive, but I usually pay for it for a month, get a lot of girls' contacts, and meet a bunch, and then take a break for a few months.

Interesting, where do you live? I've definitely been disappointed a lot by escorts in Vancouver. Not hugely, but many do fib about their age and use Photoshop a lot. I've noticed that agency girls seem to have more consistent looks and are less of a surprise compared to independents. Vancouver definitely has very beautiful women overall, and I’m lucky to know and date many attractive civilian women outside of this hobby, as well as some beautiful sugar babies. Because of this, I often compare escorts to them, and they fall short in the looks category for me. That said, it's rare for me to come across an escort I don't want to sleep with, haha.

I think when it comes to who makes more money between sugar babies and escorts, it really varies from person to person. The reasons why women choose to be sugar babies or escorts could be a whole other discussion since there are plenty of pros and cons to each. It also depends on what the woman can command in the market. Personally, if I were a woman, I would find being a sugar baby more appealing than being an escort, even if it meant making less money.

I know a girl from high school who was a model. About four times a year, she would receive $100,000 to spend a few hours with a well-known billionaire. You would never have guessed this about her, as she seemed very innocent and only had sexual relationships with men she was in long-term relationships with, except for this billionaire. I found out through dating her best friend, but it was kept pretty private. It's certainly a rare situation, and she is one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen, but there's stuff like that going on too.

I think the idea of "don't make an escort your sugar baby" is mostly about the different mindsets between escorts and sugar babies. Escorts tend to have a more transactional view, where they get paid by the hour. However, it really depends on the individual, the woman and the type of arrangement. I've had sugar babies where it was mostly sexual, similar to an escort, and others where it felt more like a casual relationship or friends with benefits. Generally, I find that the dynamics with a sugar baby are usually very different from those with an escort. 
However, when I book escorts, I usually only book them for about 30 to 90 minutes, and I don't do dinner dates or anything like that, its purely sexual. In contrast, with sugar babies, I might go out for dinner or drinks, or just watch a movie at home along with being intimate, or sometimes its just sex, theres alot more variation but theres never really a time constraint on it unless I want there to be.

Yeah, OnlyFans is definitely a path to escorting. However, I don't think it's very common for girls to do OnlyFans. I believe being a sugar baby is more popular because it's more discreet, and a girl can do it without anyone ever finding out. I also believe that the idea of being a sugar baby is heavily promoted to girls on TikTok, IG, podcasts, and similar platforms as well.
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I agree I think that the good sugar babies are often or always more physically attractive and of better quality than even the top escorts.
It just takes a little sometimes alot more work to source them and set it all up.
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Rizzgod it's intriguing to hear that you compare your past relationships with sugar babies to those with escorts, while also describing some of them as more casual or akin to friends with benefits. Do you still keep in touch with any of your former sugar babies?

In a sugar daddy relationship, what attracted me was the opportunity to serve as a mentor to a young woman. I envisioned a connection not a boyfriend or husband; instead, a role akin to a surrogate father. Someone to not only provide financial support but also to help fill the emotional void for someone who had grown up without a father figure — which at this point is probably half the women in the population. But is this realistic? Or is this fantasy? Did any of your sugar babies see you as a father figure?

There's a saying going around that every man pays for sex, whether it's dinners, mortgages or outright cash. The sugar baby does mask the transactional nature of this, so it would make sense that more women would be open to it. And therefore a larger pool to choose from, with better looking women. Prostitution is very taboo still. And let's not forget, very illegal. 5 years prison for a fist time offense is crazy when you think about it.
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#9

Imho, tinder, hinge, bumble and similar platforms is a waste of time. At least I was never successful and straight to the point with these.

Re websites:
Seeking is the best bang for a buck
Whatsyourprice is the most ridiculous platform and idea I have ever seen
Sugardaddymeet is ok, but it doesn't allow to narrow a search diameter to less than 80km
Secret benefits is the cheapest option, for what you can do for free, but the database of the girls around you may be quite small

Re sugadadding... I think if the financial difference is 10x and age difference is more than 15 years... you kinda fall into the category.

of coz, u may be very fit, very healthy and still looking young... but the age gap and generation difference, plus income difference is so detrimental... that it is quite impossible to overpass...

If you share your sugar baby with other guys, that's, basically, escorting. If you share her with more than just her BF, if there is one or you cannot prove the number of studs per given period of time in her vagina... then you will suffer, unless this is what you are ok with.

But yes, if u have found an exclusive one or as close to exclusivity as you can get, u r the lucky one.

Miracles happen, but clearly understand that it is sex and nothing more... or at least, get this: a chance for something more is very slim and less than a stat error.... besides, when a woman starts escorting or sugar babying...something fundamental is broken/missing or was never there to begin with and the idea that this girl is a whore will always bother you in the back of your mind...
So control your emotions. This refers to me too. Sometimes it is hard to do.
I will PUNISH!
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My experience with women on sugar sites is that they vary a lot. Some are basically just like hiring an escort, while others are okay with having sex for money but want to meet up casually at least once or a couple of times before getting physical, id say most fall into the latter, especially younger gals. There are also the "platonic only" girls, but if you're the right guy, they’re often open to having sex too.

And I dont think anyones trying to wife these hoes, or atleast no man with standards or options.

I do think there’s a difference between a girl who will have sex with any man in the world for money, like an escort, and a girl who will have sex for money but has standards and is pickier, like a sugar baby. The sugar baby is more respectable (assuming she isnt one of the escort ones).

That's why some guys don't do well with sugar dating or barely can make it work. Butthey can hook up with any escort they want if they can afford the rate.
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I must admit, I always dismissed the idea of sugar babies because I had a notion of what it entailed that seems to differ from reality. Now that I've been doing a bit of research on sites like this and Reddit, I'm considering dipping my toes into this world.

Some Questions I have:
-Do you have one regular SB you are exclusive with or multiple?
-Do sugar babies prefer having one SD or multiple?
-How long do arrangements typically last?
-What are common reasons for arrangements to end?
-Do they ever develop into real relationships?
-What traits do you look for in an SB?
-How often do you meet with your SB?
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It seems like very few Vancouver girls use seeking anymore? Is there another site they have migrated to?
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(12-26-2024, 10:29 AM)TB12 Wrote: I must admit, I always dismissed the idea of sugar babies because I had a notion of what it entailed that seems to differ from reality. Now that I've been doing a bit of research on sites like this and Reddit, I'm considering dipping my toes into this world.

Some Questions I have:
-Do you have one regular SB you are exclusive with or multiple?
-Do sugar babies prefer having one SD or multiple?
-How long do arrangements typically last?
-What are common reasons for arrangements to end?
-Do they ever develop into real relationships?
-What traits do you look for in an SB?
-How often do you meet with your SB?


I've been using Seeking and SDM for a few years, can give you some answers:

- Do you have one regular SB you are exclusive with or multiple?
My wallet limits me to 1-2

-Do sugar babies prefer having one SD or multiple?
Most girls, unless they are really new, probably are at least talking with other guys (plus whatever in their personal life). They seem to want to have one or two guys they see regularly. The girls who escort, of course, are a different case.

-How long do arrangements typically last?
Depends, can be a 1-time (just didn't click), a month or a few months. I had two that lasted several years

-What are common reasons for arrangements to end?
In the short ones, guys get bored with the same girl (or she gets a better offer). The long ones are usually something like one partner moving away or getting into a serious relationship.  

-Do they ever develop into real relationships?
I'm sure it does happen, but I wouldn't join one of these sites, unless you're both at a similar point in life, expecting that. It's a bit like dating a stripper.

-What traits do you look for in an SB?
Good looks and a good personality is not crazy and is not money-hungry. 

-How often do you meet with your SB?
A few times a month

(01-12-2025, 04:00 PM)lilboat Wrote: It seems like very few Vancouver girls use seeking anymore? Is there another site they have migrated to?

Depends on the time of the year. The end of the month is usually good (rent). Also the end of the school year, October/November (think Black Friday, Christmas/New Year).

I have a few leads if you'd like?
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Has anyone had much success "freestyling," or finding SB's in the wild/ public places? If you have, how did it go for you? Do you bring it up right away or after a conversation? What are some good spots in Vancouver for this?

I also agree that dating apps and IG are the best places to find SB's nowadays. Seeking can be good at times, but the really hot girls get swooped up quickly, so you need to be very active on there.
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(01-28-2025, 10:56 AM)quarterback Wrote: Has anyone had much success "freestyling," or finding SB's in the wild/ public places? If you have, how did it go for you? Do you bring it up right away or after a conversation? What are some good spots in Vancouver for this?

I have, sort of
But it’s always been more like this: I meet a girl in public, get her phone number or Instagram, and we have a normal interaction without any mention of sugar dating.

Afterwards, I realize that I don’t want to take her out on dates or anything like that, but I do want to sleep with her. So, I tactfully suggest the idea of a sugar arrangement through text or whatever contact information she provided.

I've only done this a few times, but it's had a 100% success rate. It’s a pretty safe approach because if she gives you her number, she's usually at least somewhat interested and attracted to you.

I'm sure you could be more direct and bring up sugar dating during your first in-person chat. I'm sure that could work well too. I haven't tried it, and I don't think I would in Vancouver, but I'd be interested to see how it goes for other guys.
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Elaboration on how you “tactfully” achieved this would be appreciated
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(12-18-2024, 03:59 PM)Rizzgod Wrote:  Raya is also great especially when travelling, but its tough to get on there for most guys.

How'd you manage to get on Raya? Any tips to get on it?
Whats the talent pool like in Vancouver?
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It sounds like we need a separate sugar babe reviews and review board.
The time has come!

Yes sugar business is less stable and more volatile and there is a competition on both sides. But, maybe those who clearly take money and disappear should be known.

Also, nice to know, who is a former escort in the pool. I would imagine many guys don't want a former escort as a sugar babe

Etc etc etc

Menz.life-sugar listings and reviews Wink= find the sweetest beet/potato/sugar cane plantation!
I will PUNISH!
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(01-31-2025, 08:00 AM)Altay Wrote: It sounds like we need a separate sugar babe reviews and review board.
The time has come!
Yes sugar business is less stable and more volatile and there is a competition on both sides. But, maybe those who clearly take money and disappear should be known.
Also, nice to know, who is a former escort in the pool. I would imagine many guys don't want a former escort as a sugar babe
Etc etc etc
Menz.life-sugar listings and reviews Wink= find the sweetest beet/potato/sugar cane plantation!
I would be a bit cautious about this, to be honest. I think starting a review forum for sugar babies could make many women hesitant to participate in sugar dating. It might also result in a forum or group where sugar babies review sugar daddies. Even worse, it could devolve into something similar to those "are we dating the same guy" facebook pages. 

The truth is that sugar daddies and sugar babies usually have a lot more personal information about each other compared to the relationship between an escort and a client. What currently keeps things in balance is a kind of mutually assured destruction. Additionally, both parties have a level of plausible deniability, allowing them to claim that they are not exchanging sex for money and to maintain the facade of conventional dating if it comes to light and they get exposed.

Furthermore, many sugar babies tend to see only a small number of sugar daddies, with some having just one at a time. The same applies to sugar daddies. They also do different stuff with different guys, they may make one wait for sex, while having sex with another right away.  Therefore, even if a review is posted "anonymously," she can likely narrow it down. Unlike escorts who may have multiple clients in a single day or see double-digit numbers each month, the dynamics are different in sugar relationships.

There’s a lot men can do to protect themselves in sugar dating: always arrange an unpaid meet and greet, don’t give money for platonic hangouts, and simply ghost the rude and psychopathic ones without engaging. In a sugar dating dynamic, the man has all the leverage, so act like it.

I do think that really bad sugar babies who are acting unethically or scamming should be exposed. I also believe we should call out escorts who try to pose as sugar babies, I already report them when I see them on Seeking.

I'm just saying, if you go down the path of reviewing regular sugar babies, you're playing with fire. I would urge you to exercise extreme caution in engaging in a game of reputation destruction with women. Woman are far better at this kind of stuff then men.
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