Alternatives to screening for escorts

[LuciferJones]

Im starting a thread regarding ways sex workers can be safe. Some girls opt for a pimp (or "agency"), others want our linked in, government ID, a reference, an etransfer deposit, and some will record us entering their workplace. All of these come with problems. Some expectations are from an elitist mindset and from a place of privilege. The girls who usually require a reference for example are higher priced, and then girls who usually give them are from the same ilk who also require references for you to see them. Some are exploitative and will charge you for wanting them to be a reference. Others are greedy and may sabotage your ability to see their competition. It's unreasonable for me as a client to ask a provider who is very lowkey to want her to give a reference to someone who charges double and eve triple her rates. Deposits create a direct paper trail. Our linkedin and government ID can be used as a collateral. Our footage can be hsed against us also, lady winds up getting robbed for example. Cops want to search video cams, they find you on video and with facial recognition technology and youre called in for questioning. A can of worms, needing to call in a lawyer with money you dont have to cover your ass. 

What are some client safe alternatives we can put out there for the hard working and honest ladies who want to ensure safety for all consenting parties?
Safety concerns are valid and we cant deny them that.

Lets put suggestions here and hopefully the working ladies who are listening and willing to level with their consumers will adopt these principles in place of the screening options that come with problems.

[lotlizard]

I find many who require deposits are ok with a gift card of their choice
I’ll occasionally pay with Etransfer if I’m comfortable
I refuse to give ID. Not comfortable with that at all. And I don’t have much to lose. I work for myself. I’m not married. Many of my buddies know I partake. A lot of them do too. I do ok but I don’t think I’m wealthy enough to be worth blackmailing. But in regards to ID I won’t do it. It’s a firm no from me. And would be interested in hearing a good argument as to why someone would.

[LuciferJones]

I find many who require deposits are ok with a gift card of their choice
I’ll occasionally pay with Etransfer if I’m comfortable
I refuse to give ID. Not comfortable with that at all. And I don’t have much to lose. I work for myself. I’m not married. Many of my buddies know I partake. A lot of them do too. I do ok but I don’t think I’m wealthy enough to be worth blackmailing. But in regards to ID I won’t do it. It’s a firm no from me. And would be interested in hearing a good argument as to why someone would.

I'm not worth blackmailing either, but you don't know the extent some crackheads and their pimps are willing to go to in order to get what you have. I'm a homeowner with a spouse and kids. Perhaps they think that being able to afford x amount per year on my mortgage might make them think they can blackmail me for half of that (which I wouldn't have sitting around).

[lotlizard]

I find many who require deposits are ok with a gift card of their choice
I’ll occasionally pay with Etransfer if I’m comfortable
I refuse to give ID. Not comfortable with that at all. And I don’t have much to lose. I work for myself. I’m not married. Many of my buddies know I partake. A lot of them do too. I do ok but I don’t think I’m wealthy enough to be worth blackmailing. But in regards to ID I won’t do it. It’s a firm no from me. And would be interested in hearing a good argument as to why someone would.

I'm not worth blackmailing either, but you don't know the extent some crackheads and their pimps are willing to go to in order to get what you have. I'm a homeowner with a spouse and kids. Perhaps they think that being able to afford x amount per year on my mortgage might make them think they can blackmail me for half of that (which I wouldn't have sitting around).

Sometimes providers lose their minds.  It’s just how it is it’s the unfortunate reality or they’ll get involved with a shady pimp or fucked up bf.

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I care about their safety crazy shit happens there’s a few providers I’ve gotten to know on a more personal level over the years but they died in suspicious circumstances
But fucked up shit happens to other pooners as well
It’s hard to find where to draw the line between sp safety and client privacy

[lotlizard]

Before anyone accuses me of being a “simp” again
I’ve been doing this since before you could check reviews & providers social media on the internet
I think the newer generation has it really good now overall

[Jediknight]

Deposits and references from other SPs should be suffice. No socials no handles ect

I've never given ID I've had some ask for ID that's a no no for me.

Amazon gift card is one most accepted

[LuciferJones]

Deposits and references from other SPs should be suffice. No socials no handles ect

I've never given ID I've had some ask for ID that's a no no for me.

Amazon gift card is one most accepted

See I don't like one SP knowing which other SPs I'm seeing. So the refernce piece to me has always been problematic cause chicks are jealous, and when hoeing makes them territorial.

[Smwhoregasboard]

Deposits and references from other SPs should be suffice. No socials no handles ect

I've never given ID I've had some ask for ID that's a no no for me.

Amazon gift card is one most accepted

See I don't like one SP knowing which other SPs I'm seeing. So the refernce piece to me has always been problematic cause chicks are jealous, and when hoeing makes them territorial.

Stopped asking for references because every request leads to a question about why I haven’t seen her of late, or will you book with me if I do this.

Some of them asked for a review in return for the reference. I began to notice some refused to give them just to be spiteful and not help other women succeed.

[KimChiHoles]

See I don't like one SP knowing which other SPs I'm seeing. So the refernce piece to me has always been problematic cause chicks are jealous, and when hoeing makes them territorial.

Stopped asking for references because every request leads to a question about why I haven’t seen her of late, or will you book with me if I do this.

Some of them asked for a review in return for the reference. I began to notice some refused to give them just to be spiteful and not help other women succeed.

Isn’t it Ironic all the mainstream media is about woman lifting other woman up and supporting each other and the reality is examples more
Like this , jealousy , backstabbing and sabotaging others .

[LuciferJones]

See I don't like one SP knowing which other SPs I'm seeing. So the refernce piece to me has always been problematic cause chicks are jealous, and when hoeing makes them territorial.

Stopped asking for references because every request leads to a question about why I haven’t seen her of late, or will you book with me if I do this.

Some of them asked for a review in return for the reference. I began to notice some refused to give them just to be spiteful and not help other women succeed.

It's also the elitism behind it. You can't ask a $200 hr girl who hustles and stays out of the hooker community, hides her face and books same day with an hour notice to be okay with vouching for a client suddenly willing to spend $500+ on these face out overglorified Twitter and tryst girls bitching about men. It's disrespectful to those girls.

[Jediknight]

Deposits and references from other SPs should be suffice. No socials no handles ect

I've never given ID I've had some ask for ID that's a no no for me.

Amazon gift card is one most accepted

See I don't like one SP knowing which other SPs I'm seeing. So the refernce piece to me has always been problematic cause chicks are jealous, and when hoeing makes them territorial.

That's a very good point. Generally as I've gone through screening protocols I have noticed there is the ask of a deposit or also asking for a reference. You make a good point how references can be problematic. Time to just stick with a deposit. One thing that I've noticed about deposits is there's two types of providers. Ones that ask you to use a certain password so they can deposit it right away. And then the other ones that request the password after I have come upstairs. I've never sent a deposit to a provider asking for the password before the date. It made me nervous

[Peyto]

I'm still apprehensive with the bank E - Transfer method so, if there is another way of deposits. Please dm me or here as another method and how to do it. I'm easy going and I welcome ideas. I'm old school  type of guy lol. 

 

[okfallsdude]

Never do anything that can be linked to your personal life

If the whore requires a deposit just don’t see her

Deposits are an unnecessary risk.

It’s an illegal activity any form of a deposit essentially screw’s you over

Plenty of other great girls who don’t require it

I’m just strongly against something that is dumb to do

[lotlizard]

Stopped asking for references because every request leads to a question about why I haven’t seen her of late, or will you book with me if I do this.

Some of them asked for a review in return for the reference. I began to notice some refused to give them just to be spiteful and not help other women succeed.

It's also the elitism behind it. You can't ask a $200 hr girl who hustles and stays out of the hooker community, hides her face and books same day with an hour notice to be okay with vouching for a client suddenly willing to spend $500+ on these face out overglorified Twitter and tryst girls bitching about men. It's disrespectful to those girls.

In my experience it’s often higher end ladies who won’t accept references from those who are below them. I’ve been told “find someone else” albeit this was years ago and not referring to a recent experience 
I don’t even do the reference thing anymore. Too much headache. Deposits are much easier plus many accept gift cards. Can just go to the store and buy one in cash if I don’t feel comfortable leaving a trail

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Never do anything that can be linked to your personal life

If the whore requires a deposit just don’t see her

Deposits are an unnecessary risk.

It’s an illegal activity any form of a deposit essentially screw’s you over

Plenty of other great girls who don’t require it

I’m just strongly against something that is dumb to do

Burner phone plus gift card code of the lady’s choice is how I do it when I want to stay private. It’s really not that complicated

[Peyto]

It's also the elitism behind it. You can't ask a $200 hr girl who hustles and stays out of the hooker community, hides her face and books same day with an hour notice to be okay with vouching for a client suddenly willing to spend $500+ on these face out overglorified Twitter and tryst girls bitching about men. It's disrespectful to those girls.

In my experience it’s often higher end ladies who won’t accept references from those who are below them. I’ve been told “find someone else” albeit this was years ago and not referring to a recent experience 
I don’t even do the reference thing anymore. Too much headache. Deposits are much easier plus many accept gift cards. Can just go to the store and buy one in cash if I don’t feel comfortable leaving a trail

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Never do anything that can be linked to your personal life

If the whore requires a deposit just don’t see her

Deposits are an unnecessary risk.

It’s an illegal activity any form of a deposit essentially screw’s you over

Plenty of other great girls who don’t require it

I’m just strongly against something that is dumb to do

Burner phone plus gift card code of the lady’s choice is how I do it when I want to stay private. It’s really not that complicated

So how do you do a gift card as a deposit without leaving a paper trail? I've never done this method.

[lotlizard]

In my experience it’s often higher end ladies who won’t accept references from those who are below them. I’ve been told “find someone else” albeit this was years ago and not referring to a recent experience 
I don’t even do the reference thing anymore. Too much headache. Deposits are much easier plus many accept gift cards. Can just go to the store and buy one in cash if I don’t feel comfortable leaving a trail

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Burner phone plus gift card code of the lady’s choice is how I do it when I want to stay private. It’s really not that complicated

So how do you do a gift card as a deposit without leaving a paper trail? I've never done this method.

Buy a physical gift card at the store and send the code. If the lady agrees to one that’s there 
It often works fine for me

[LuciferJones]

So how do you do a gift card as a deposit without leaving a paper trail? I've never done this method.

Buy a physical gift card at the store and send the code. If the lady agrees to one that’s there 
It often works fine for me

Going to play devils advocate here. Theoretically one can also use it before the lady has a chance to redeem the credit.

[lotlizard]

Buy a physical gift card at the store and send the code. If the lady agrees to one that’s there 
It often works fine for me

Going to play devils advocate here. Theoretically one can also use it before the lady has a chance to redeem the credit.

Some cards like uber, amazon they can load it right away on to those accounts

[LuciferJones]

Going to play devils advocate here. Theoretically one can also use it before the lady has a chance to redeem the credit.

Some cards like uber, amazon they can load it right away on to those accounts

Be prepared for the usual push back, "I can't pay bills on Amazon or Uber Eats!"

This is where you got to remind them that it's only a deposit, not a significant portion of their fee, and not they'd be able to do with the cash value if it were in cash. You know the type of argument they use to justify deposits :p