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I've noticed a few people mention this, and based on what I've observed, it seems to be mostly true. Are incels the primary target demographic that escorts market to?
What other markets/demographics do escorts target?
This seems particularly true when you look at the escorts advertising on Perb, especially considering the mods there are incels themselves.
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08-31-2025, 09:54 AM
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Personally, I believe the term " Incel" is used correctly in some circumstances and incorrectly in others. You can't paint everyone with the same brush. Yes, there are some out there who rely on escorts to get laid, human touch, companionship etc. And then there are ones who see escorts who have fantasy femdom / fantasy role play that normal " vanilla " girls won't dare to attempt, or just aren't comfortable doing.
IE-- Doctors, Movie and Rock star celebrities, politicians, Judges, Cops etc. If anyone can get a lady, it would these people. What?? You'll call them " Incels " ??!! LMAO!! You are delusional at best if you think otherwise.
Myself -- I love my bachelor life and see escorts occasionally for some fantasy / fetish play when the urge comes up. Also, enjoy seeing a variety of different cultural ladies too.
Perb mods themselves are the incels if you ask me. They spend all of their time overlooking an escort forum, banning members who don't see their way while protecting their paid advertisers in any way shape or form. If anyone is the incel...it's them!!
They call others incels by trying to convince themselves of that. They have internal guilt and damaged souls.
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(08-31-2025, 08:07 AM)MB_ Wrote: on Perb, especially considering the mods there are incels themselves.
(08-31-2025, 09:54 AM)Peyto Wrote: They call others incels by trying to convince themselves of that. They have internal guilt and damaged souls.
The term is called ' projection', a classic defense mechanism, usually unconscious. The very thing that you are - is the thing you accuse others of being - because psychologically you can't deal with the truth of your situation in life.
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Speaking as an incel myself yes.
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If I had to make an assumption, I'd say the main clientele demographics that escorts aim for when seeking repeat and regular bookings is:
-incels
-older men
-men who are married or in relationships
However, many men who are married, in relationships, or older also are incels, though most wouldn’t openly acknowledge it, so it makes sense to consider incels as a key target demographic for repeat clientele.
Escorts typically won’t admit this, they often claim they don’t see incels or that incels make up only a small portion of their clientele. But in reality, a significant part of the job involves engaging with men who fall into that category. And based on how many escorts market themselves, it seems clear they’re aware of this dynamic.
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09-01-2025, 06:34 PM
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(09-01-2025, 08:36 AM)yaletownfuckboi Wrote: If I had to make an assumption, I'd say the main clientele demographics that escorts aim for when seeking repeat and regular bookings is:
-incels
-older men
-men who are married or in relationships
However, many men who are married, in relationships, or older also are incels, though most wouldn’t openly acknowledge it, so it makes sense to consider incels as a key target demographic for repeat clientele.
Escorts typically won’t admit this, they often claim they don’t see incels or that incels make up only a small portion of their clientele. But in reality, a significant part of the job involves engaging with men who fall into that category. And based on how many escorts market themselves, it seems clear they’re aware of this dynamic. You’d think more escorts would focus on marketing to men who are in relationships or married, since that seems to be a common reason for seeing escorts. My ex, who worked as an escort, could usually tell when a client was in a relationship. Many of them had specific preferences, like avoiding certain services, such as BBBJ, being less interested in kissing, and often opting for shorter appointment times.Â
I suppose it depends on whether the guy is dealing with a "dead bedroom" situation or if he's simply seeking the thrill and variety that comes with seeing providers while in a relationship. The second guy is much more risk averse, and is looking for sex not a connection.
Isn't a man not a incel if he is having sex with escorts?
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Escorts know that at least half their clients are probably incels, but they don’t really admit it to themselves or anyone else because it’s just kind of gross to think about.
I notice the same thing with the OF girls I manage. They’re in denial about the kind of guys buying their content, but at the same time, they target incels because those are the big spenders. They’ll do all kinds of mental gymnastics to avoid thinking about it.
With OF girls, there’s also the fact that almost all of them have atleast some underage subscribers, they always deny that, but we all know its true.
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09-01-2025, 07:29 PM
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(09-01-2025, 06:34 PM)Boomba Wrote: Isn't a man not a incel if he is having sex with escorts? You are still an incel if the only sex you have is paid for sex.
I am an incel, and I have sex with escorts, but ive never had sex with a woman who isnt an escort.
A woman must have sex with you with burning genuine desire, or because you have value for you to not be an incel.
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09-02-2025, 08:31 AM
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(09-01-2025, 07:10 PM)OF_Manager Wrote: With OF girls, there’s also the fact that almost all of them have atleast some underage subscribers, they always deny that, but we all know its true. reminds me of this video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIJmYc5ZQ3M
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09-02-2025, 02:37 PM
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(09-01-2025, 06:34 PM)Boomba Wrote: You’d think more escorts would focus on marketing to men who are in relationships or married, since that seems to be a common reason for seeing escorts. My ex, who worked as an escort, could usually tell when a client was in a relationship. Many of them had specific preferences, like avoiding certain services, such as BBBJ, being less interested in kissing, and often opting for shorter appointment times.Â
I suppose it depends on whether the guy is dealing with a "dead bedroom" situation or if he's simply seeking the thrill and variety that comes with seeing providers while in a relationship. The second guy is much more risk averse, and is looking for sex not a connection. Massage with a happy ending could be a great service for married or partnered men who are still intimate with their spouses. It’s interesting that not many independent providers in Vancouver offer this service.Â
If a younger, attractive independent woman offered this service, she’d likely make a lot of money. Or, if there were a higher end "spa" offering it, similar to those in other Canadian cities, it could do really well.
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I wouldn’t consider myself an incel by any means, but I do find it challenging to hook up without seeing escorts. That said, I often question how some of them market themselves, I'm doing well financially, but some of the rates out there are just more than I'm willing to spend. Perhaps i'm too frugal!
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1/3 men hasn't had sex in the last year. That makes them incels. The number is likely significantly higher among men who visit escorts.
Its in the job description that escorts have sex with incles, that's a core part of the profession.
There isn't a single escort working who doesn't have sex with incels on a regular basis.
If incels didn't exist, neither would escorts.
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(09-02-2025, 03:58 PM)zoomer Wrote: 1/3 men hasn't had sex in the last year. That makes them incels. The number is likely significantly higher among men who visit escorts.
Its in the job description that escorts have sex with incles, that's a core part of the profession.
There isn't a single escort working who doesn't have sex with incels on a regular basis.
If incels didn't exist, neither would escorts. Yeah man, we get it, you're an incel. You've mentioned it a hundred times already.
No one cares.
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