Rizzgod's Guide to Sugar Dating

[TB12]

I for the life of me am not having much success on seeking.
Im not sure what i am doing wrong.
Do you guys lie about your net worth and income? I have been called "not wealthy enough" a few times despite a $500k income and a couple million net worth.
Or maybe its my age or looks?
the ladies are quite rude to me ! Im kind and respectful

[altig@tor]

In regards to the delusion those girls have, they want
1. U to be relatively young.
2. Fit 6-8 abdominal pack
3. Free
4. No kids
5. Rich from upper 6 figures
6. Good looking
7. 6ft up
8. 6in up dick
9. Give them your money only coz they exist
10. Not to control them in any way
Etc etc etc

[yaletownfuckboi]

I for the life of me am not having much success on seeking.
Im not sure what i am doing wrong.
Do you guys lie about your net worth and income? I have been called "not wealthy enough" a few times despite a $500k income and a couple million net worth.
Or maybe its my age or looks?
the ladies are quite rude to me ! Im kind and respectful

I make about the same amount and I have been called poor by girls before also. 
Meanwhile they think the guy who makes 1/4 of that, but blows it all and doesn't save/invest is rich.

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In regards to the delusion those girls have, they want
1. U to be relatively young.
2. Fit 6-8 abdominal pack
3. Free
4. No kids
5. Rich from upper 6 figures
6. Good looking
7. 6ft up
8. 6in up dick
9. Give them your money only coz they exist
10. Not to control them in any way
Etc etc etc

And they are always in for a rude awakening, because the wall is undefeated.

[Rizzgod]

I for the life of me am not having much success on seeking.
Im not sure what i am doing wrong.
Do you guys lie about your net worth and income? I have been called "not wealthy enough" a few times despite a $500k income and a couple million net worth.
Or maybe its my age or looks?
the ladies are quite rude to me ! Im kind and respectful

Realistically, you'll need to either make your profile more appealing to women, lower your standards, or look for SBs in places other than Seeking.

I don't think there's much we can do to help without seeing your profile and how you interact with women online and offline.

Theres a lot of competition on these sites.

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I for the life of me am not having much success on seeking.
Im not sure what i am doing wrong.
Do you guys lie about your net worth and income? I have been called "not wealthy enough" a few times despite a $500k income and a couple million net worth.
Or maybe its my age or looks?
the ladies are quite rude to me ! Im kind and respectful

I make about the same amount and I have been called poor by girls before also. 
Meanwhile they think the guy who makes 1/4 of that, but blows it all and doesn't save/invest is rich.

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In regards to the delusion those girls have, they want
1. U to be relatively young.
2. Fit 6-8 abdominal pack
3. Free
4. No kids
5. Rich from upper 6 figures
6. Good looking
7. 6ft up
8. 6in up dick
9. Give them your money only coz they exist
10. Not to control them in any way
Etc etc etc

And they are always in for a rude awakening, because the wall is undefeated.

Based on my observations in life, which I'm sure many wealthy men can attest to, most women who are "gold diggers" are notoriously bad at recognizing genuine wealth and determining which men are the wealthiest.

This is especially true for women who come from low socioeconomic backgrounds or those involved in sex work.

And to make matters worse, many of these same girls are also terrible at talking with and appealing to wealthy men. They have no idea how to secure a wealthy man for the long term, believing that just because they can attract one for a night or two, they know what they’re doing. In reality, many of them are doing the opposite of what they should be doing to keep a wealthy man in their lives long-term.

[yaletownfuckboi]

I have had a few girls from seeking say that alot of guys on there are lying about their heights, incomes, and body types.

So if thats true, it could be contributing to some of these woman delusions

No idea how true that is

But, theres nothing realistic about most woman's "dating standards" even outside of sugar dating

[adastr@]

Altay has pointed out to me that there are a significant number of escorts advertising for sugar daddy - so I wonder - is there a way we could incorporate this into Menz? 
Any suggestions?

[Silverfox]

I am late 40s and haven't found my age to be a detriment on sugar sites

I even still match with woman in their twenties on dating apps

[Rizzgod]

Has anyone else noticed that there seems to be a significant number of girls on Seeking Arrangements who secretly have boyfriends?

Maybe I've just been unlucky and keep encountering the few girls who are doing that lately haha

[altig@tor]

Has anyone else noticed that there seems to be a significant number of girls on Seeking Arrangements who secretly have boyfriends?

Maybe I've just been unlucky and keep encountering the few girls who are doing that lately haha

Yes, same data on my end

The worst is... those sigma BF males (they are not men) who are ok with that

[Silverfox]

I would appreciate it if someone could provide a deeper exploration of how social media apps, such as Instagram, can be utilized for sugar dating and what that entails.

Also is Snapchat still a thing? and if so how do you find profiles on it?

[MarcusGlizzy]

I would appreciate it if someone could provide a deeper exploration of how social media apps, such as Instagram, can be utilized for sugar dating and what that entails.

Also is Snapchat still a thing? and if so how do you find profiles on it?

Step 1. have clout

Step 2. be rich

Step 3. let the baddies come to you

[Blob]

Seeking is like dating apps for me

I cast my lure and get nothing
nada

I thought it was a scam website

[Rizzgod]

I would appreciate it if someone could provide a deeper exploration of how social media apps, such as Instagram, can be utilized for sugar dating and what that entails.
Also is Snapchat still a thing? and if so how do you find profiles on it?

For using Instagram, you have two options:

You can utilize your existing personal Instagram account to reach out to girls and inquire if they’re interested in a sugar arrangement. Depending on your level of privacy, you might want to choose your words carefully and be less direct, but ultimately, it’s your choice. One benefit of using your personal IG is that it provides social proof, also allowing them to see what you look like, and your lifestyle etc. If you go this route id suggest trying to move the conversation to an alternative medium as quickly as possible, such as text or snapchat.

Alternatively, you could create a "burner" Instagram account or one dedicated specifically to sugar dating. You can either set one up from scratch or buy an existing account online. While this method offers more discretion, if the account is too obviously a burner, many girls might find it suspicious or think you’re a scammer.

As long as you're not reaching out to girls with tens of thousands of followers, she will probably see your message eventually. If it ends up in her requests inbox, it might take her a bit longer to notice it. However, from my experience chatting with girls, most girls tend to read every Instagram message they receive.

[Lawman]

 Raya is also great especially when travelling, but its tough to get on there for most guys.

How'd you manage to get on Raya? Any tips to get on it?
Whats the talent pool like in Vancouver?

I'm also interested in finding out how to join Raya.

[altig@tor]

I remind you guys, send me the
info on sugar babes who should be blacklisted and I will list them in the gentlemen hidden discussion (pirate sign) section.
Thankz

[Silverfox]

I would appreciate it if someone could provide a deeper exploration of how social media apps, such as Instagram, can be utilized for sugar dating and what that entails.
Also is Snapchat still a thing? and if so how do you find profiles on it?

For using Instagram, you have two options:

You can utilize your existing personal Instagram account to reach out to girls and inquire if they’re interested in a sugar arrangement. Depending on your level of privacy, you might want to choose your words carefully and be less direct, but ultimately, it’s your choice. One benefit of using your personal IG is that it provides social proof, also allowing them to see what you look like, and your lifestyle etc. If you go this route id suggest trying to move the conversation to an alternative medium as quickly as possible, such as text or snapchat.

Alternatively, you could create a "burner" Instagram account or one dedicated specifically to sugar dating. You can either set one up from scratch or buy an existing account online. While this method offers more discretion, if the account is too obviously a burner, many girls might find it suspicious or think you’re a scammer.

As long as you're not reaching out to girls with tens of thousands of followers, she will probably see your message eventually. If it ends up in her requests inbox, it might take her a bit longer to notice it. However, from my experience chatting with girls, most girls tend to read every Instagram message they receive.

Thanks for the detailed response.

Any advice for making my instagram more appealing to woman who are interested in sugar dating? Types of pics etc?

[Wario]

Do the woman on seeking seem exceptionally rude and mean to anyone else?

[AzianPride]

Asian girls dont even like the asian boys, explain how that makes sense *eye roll*

[MarcusGlizzy]

Asian girls dont even like the asian boys, explain how that makes sense *eye roll*

Speak 4 urself BRUH

I have a bachelors degree in snowbunnyology